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Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

10.06.2025 03:58

Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

What is unattractive about a nice guy? Why do some women don’t choose nice guys?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

Why should the US public listen to Lauren Boebert, the queen of hypocrisy tell us, "We need morals back in our nation" when her real-time video is the heartbeat of immoral? Why does her audio not match her video?

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !